Living Life with Purpose in the Third Quarter

For a long time, I struggled with the weight of death—its finality, its mystery, and the fear that came with not knowing how much time I have left. But through prayer, reflection, and powerful encounters, I’ve come to embrace this truth: I can’t control when I take my last breath, but I can control the impact I have while I’m here.

Recently, I met a woman whose words stirred something in my spirit. She said, “I’m in my last quarter—and I’m deciding how I want to live it.” That woman is Dr. J. Campbell, 79 years young, full of wisdom, strength, and purpose. Still living fully, still serving, still choosing joy—her presence alone is a lesson.

That conversation made me reflect on where I am. I’ve entered my third quarter—and just like in a great game or stage performance, the third quarter builds the momentum for the final act. It’s not about rushing to the end—it’s about making every play, every decision, and every breath count.

As I transition from one career to another, and walk through pain into purpose, I’ve asked God to help me steward this time wisely. I want my life to reflect my belief in Him, my love for people, and my hope that I’ve left something others can live by. I want my family to inherit more than photos and stories—I want them to inherit hope and faith.

Dr. Campbell lives that kind of legacy. She served during the Vietnam era as a Lieutenant in the U.S. Navy, later becoming a Captain in the U.S. Air Force. She started as a nurse and then broke barriers by earning her dental degree. She was the only Black woman in her class. She sometimes took her son to class with her because that’s what legacy-builders do. They show up, they push through, and they lead by example.

With 46 years in healthcare and 26 years in military service, Dr. Campbell continues to inspire. She says, “Love is the healer. Treat people the way you  want to be treated.”

I honor her today, and I accept the challenge her life presents: to live on purpose, to love well, to leave a legacy worth carrying.